Is it better to Give or Recieve??

[SHATOUSHKA]

i understand that there should be openness in
any relationship... but there is always some
difficulty in some areas moreso than others.

trampis was looking for tact. that was all.

[Cyalaytr]

Tact is good. Cant just run in there and yell OFF COMES THE MUFF. SHAVE THE BEAVER!!! But hopefully they arent sexual opposites in that he has to have the wild mombo and she has to do the light off sort of thing. Puts a real bear on a relationship so best to work those kinks out in the beginning. ;-) Not that you have to ba wild just be open in what you want or like. It goes a long way.

CYA

[SHATOUSHKA]

as long as sex is seen as something other than
for reproduction, it will always be used as
a form of currency.

you know better than that.

[SHATOUSHKA]

TRAMPIS --

if you don't shave yourself... a good idea would
be to kinda bring it up like that. tell her you've
been thinking about shaving (yourself) and ask
her how she feels about that area being shaven.

if you will bridge over, and talk to her about
yourself, then it will help. it should make her
feel like you can talk to her about anything,
even intimate things.

now i do not suggest doing this as a means of
trickery. but i assume that it will be a good
opening. perhaps if you would be willing to
do the deed to yourself.... you may consider
having a 'shaving party' in which you both
play around and get it done.

i would also think that if my man came to me,
and said he considered trying it and was scared,
i'd be willing to discuss it.

think about doing that.

and would you please send me an email...
i need to speak with you.